The following piece is based on a true story that moved me.
"Sound of Handcuffs"
The kids call me Coach Scott
I am the football coach at Texas State Youth penitentiary
In Texas
Where African-Americans are incarcerated at 5 times the rate of Whites
Where more Black men are in prison than in the higher education system
Where 70% of inmates are Black or Latino
While they only make up 40% of the population
In Texas
Where patriotic true Americans believe in only two things – Jesus Christ and high school football
I’m ready to give up
These kids look up to me
But I don’t have the answers anymore
I’m tired of looking up at the scoreboard
Week after week
Watching these kids get beat
By schools with eleven coaches
The latest in equipment
And really perky cheerleaders
While on our side
It’s just me
Some old pads and helmets
And two or three teachers
With very little team spirit
And at the end of every game
As my players
Are put back in handcuffs led back to the bus
The other team’s parents glare at us
One kid lets a racial slur slip from his lips
His buddy punches him in the arm
“What? But it’s true! They are!”
My kids are burglars, thieves and drug dealers
We are the Texas State Tornadoes
And here we go again
I can see the stadium lights up ahead
I put on my game face although
I’d hate to say it
We’re gonna lose
We’re 0 and 8
Grapevine Christian Faith is 7 and 2
But I can’t let these kids see how I feel
I’ve gotta
Pull my confidence off the shelf
Lead these kids on to the field
And be sure of myself
I don’t remember when I started to wonder what’s it all worth
But right now I have no idea
Why God put me on this earth
While on the other side of the field
The other coach waits
The kids call me Coach Kris
I’m the head coach here at Grapevine Christian Faith
I’ve been spinning my wheels as of late
I feel so caught up trying to keep our bank account from hitting zero
I’m up before the sun
I’m home after it sets
By the time I see my wife
My boys are already in bed
So when I saw that we were playing Texas State
All I could think was each one of them is somebody’s son
So I sent out an email to everyone
I said these boys deserve more than they have
I say we take half our fans
And cheer for them in their stands
And the parents went crazy…with excitement
They printed up rosters of the kids’ names
Made signs
Made a dinner
They said, “Coach, this is a great idea, it’s long overdue
Come look, we even made a huge banner for the kids to run through”
And as Texas State arrives
Our parents run to the bus to wish them good luck
I can see the expressions on the kids’ faces
Their coach is like…
What the f-?
Are these parents…
Why are they
Are they cheering for us?
Why’s that sign say, “Go Tornadoes.”
And as my Texas State boys get ready on the sidelines
The Grapevine parents have formed two lines on the field
I figure it’s for their team
And my kids will just run around it
But the parents keep waving for my kids to run through
So I tell my players
“I know it sounds crazy
But that spirit line’s for you”
And as our captain Isaiah leads the team through the banner
I’ve never seen him hold his head so high
He says, “Coach, it felt like I had angels on both my sides”
They enter the game so energized
It might as well be the first game of their lives
And as it begins Grapevine’s fans
Yes, they are sitting on our side
Isaiah asks, “Coach, don’t they have enough room on their side?”
And then they start cheering for our players by name
And Isaiah asks, “Coach, do they have players with all the same names?
Coach, why are they booing cuz that penalty brought back OUR run?
Coach, why are they cheering for us to hit their sons?”
“Isaiah, I’m not quite sure what’s happening
You just keep playing with the same intensity”
And as the clock hits zero
We make our way on to the field
Isaiah asks if he can lead the prayer
“Lord
I don’t know how to say thank you
Cuz now I see
There are people out there who believe in me
And I don’t even know any of their names.”
The boys sprayed me with their water bottles
Although we lost 33 to 14
I’m pretty sure I’m the first coach to ever go 0 and 9
And get a Gatorade bath
And sure
You can show my players the scoreboard a million times
You’ll never convince them
That we lost tonight
We are the Texas State tornadoes
But my boys are not dangerous, violent natural disasters
They’ve just never had a home field advantage
Until tonight
And as my kids got back on the bus
No racial slurs slipped from anyone’s lips this time
Throughout the stadium
It was completely silent
Everyone watched
The only sound
That of the handcuffs being placed back on their wrists
On our way back to the prison
I told my boys
I’m proud of you
For such a long time I’ve been ashamed
I was paying such close attention to the score of every game
And I thought that I was letting you down
I hadn’t taught you the right things
That somehow I wasn’t doing enough to help you succeed
You reminded me tonight
That it’s not about the score
And if you want a banner to run through
Come to me
And I will tell you how to do it
Without any paper
Without the help of any strangers
I believe in you
As long as you let go of the mistakes of your past
I promise you
We’ll dig in our heels
And we’ll run through that banner
Together.